Do you think my friend is spoiled?

I sense more envy on your part. I bet if your parents could afford all that cool stuff you would not tell them to quit spoiling you. I grew up with friends that had more or less toys. The ones that had more, I admit to a little envy. The nice friends shared theirs so enjoy that hot tub and offer to bring a movie on her cool TV! Most people that live a wealthy life tend to want to share because all those things mean nothing without friends.