How can i check my wife alredy doing or shehave a boy friend?

Colour of and lack of pain do not mean your wife had a relation with some one else. The hyman can rupture throgh heavy excercises and also by masturbation. so dont think that every lady on their first night must bleed . please do not start yopu married life with doubt it will ruin the relationship. Marriage Depends on Mutual trust please have love and care for your wife.