Help with my relationship, my boyfriend always trys to "teach me lessons".?

You pretty much answered your own question. Next time, just leave him there. Let him come to you. Start teaching him lessons. If YOU can't handle that, then quit griping about it. There's no other way, either deal w/ his immature behavior or don't. But honestly I wouldn't let him walk all over you like that. You will just end up constantly doing everything he wants and how he wants it, and you'll end up very unhappy. But ultimately you know what to do. BE STRONG, GIRL!!!